Same-Sex Marriage Hearing Lasts Into Early Morning
Several Johnston residents came out in favor of same-sex marriage while Fr. Healey of OLM came out against.
By midnight Thursday, people were still testifying for and against the same-sex marriage legislation (S-38) before the state Senate Judiciary Committee. More than 600 people signed up to testify and in groups of four they were called up.
Both of East Greenwich's state senators sit on the Judiciary Committee.
Sen. Dawson Hodgson (R-E.G., N.K., S.K., Narr.), early on spoke out in favor of the legislation: "If Rhode Islanders truly believe in family values, we need to value all families."
To the comments from some that the legislation harms marriage, Hodgson said, "No matter what this committee does, it won't touch your marriage. That's one of the nice things about the separation of church and state."
Sen. Lou Raptakis (D-Coventry, E.G., W.W.), who also sits on the committee, made no statements for or against during the hearing.
One of those who spoke for the "sanctity of marriage" and against same-sex marriage was Fr. Bernard Healey, pastor of Our Lady of Mercy Church in East Greenwich. Healey also serves at lobbyist for the Diocese of Providence. He said religious protections would be imperiled by passage of the bill.
Many who testified against the legislation echoed what Sen. Harold Metts (D-Prov.) referred to as the “cosmic battle between God and Satan.”
Pastor Jay Stirnemann of Tiverton said, "I speak for God. I am oppose to marriage between people of the same sex.... God established marriage, not you or me. The state has no right to define marriage."
Directing his conclusion to Sen. Donna Nesselbush (D-Pawt.), the main sponsor of the legislation in the Senate, Stirnemann said, "There will be serious consequences Sen. Nesselbush, if this passes. God watches."
Those voices were strongly supported by Sen. Harold Metts (D-Prov.), who spoke several times over the course of the evening against the bill, invoking God and the bible frequently.
Sen. Steve Archambault (D-Smithfield, Johnston, N. Prov.) also spoke frequently to those testifying, but in support of the bill.
"I don’t know how any man can stand before another man and say they know what the word of God is," Archambault said, refering to what he said was the condemning language of some of those who testified against the legislation.
Tony and Sylvia DeLuca of Saunderstown, married 53 years, testified in favor of the same-sex marriage bill, Tony noting telling about their daughter, Louisa, who is gay.
“Like any father, I just want to walk my little girl down the aisle,” he said.
Lise Iwon of South Kingstown spoke about her partner of 32 years, Peg Laurence, who died a year ago.
"Peg and I adored each other. Friends would say they envied us," she said. "Peg was and I am a passionate advocate for fairness."
Caroline Stouffer of East Greenwich got her chance to testify at 11:30 p.m., where she voiced her support of same-sex marriage. "Gay folks look just like us ... I don't think we should be writing discrimination into any of our laws."
By 12:15 a.m. Friday, seven of the ten senators on the judiciary committee were still listening to testimony, with dozens of names still on the list to testify.
Dan Johnson
11:43 am on Sunday, March 24, 2013
The Golden Rule is not just a promise of the founding documents, it is required by the constitution. As procreation is not a legal requirement, no one has presented a legitimate governmental interest sufficient for denial of the fundamental right of marriage.
"In the court’s final analysis, the government’s only basis for supporting DOMA comes down to an apparent belief that the moral views of the majority may properly be enacted as the law of the land in regard to state-sanctioned same-sex marriage in disregard of the personal status and living conditions of a significant segment of our pluralistic society. Such a view is not consistent with the evidence or the law as embodied in the Fifth Amendment with respect to the thoughts expressed in this decision. The court has no doubt about its conclusion: DOMA deprives them of the equal protection of the law to which they are entitled."
Dan Johnson
11:48 am on Sunday, March 24, 2013
Marriage it is a fundamental right of the individual.
The only eligibility requirement for fundamental rights is being human.
Reasonable restrictions may be made only when a compelling and legitimate governmental interest can withstand judicial scrutiny.
Most can agree with the courts that reasonable restrictions include age, ability to demonstrate informed consent, and not being closely related, or currently married.
While churches may place any restrictions they choose on their own ceremonies, the government can only restrict fundamental rights when a compelling and legitimate justification can be demonstrated.
Gender is not a restirction. Requiring one of each serves no legitimate governmental interest.
Procreation ability has never been a requirement for marriage, and therefore fails as a legitimate qualification. Yet even that irrational excuse for discrimination ignores the fact that gay people can and do reproduce, and are raising children either biologically related or adopted.
Denial of equal treatment under the law provides nothing to opposite sex couple families. It only harms same sex couple families needlessly.
Gay couples are seeking to be treated equally under the laws currently in effect, in the remaining states that do not yet recognize their marriages, and by the federal government.
Neither tradition nor gender provides a legitimate governmental interest sufficient for denial of this fundamental right.
Dan Johnson
2:49 pm on Monday, March 25, 2013
The courts have demonstrated denial of equal treatment serves no benefit and provides nothing to opposite sex couples and their children. It only harms same sex couples and their families, while fulfilling no legitimate governmental interest.
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